Making Godly Decisions
God’s Will and Your Next Step: A Clear Guide to Godly Decision-Making
As a college student, you’re in a season of life filled with decisions that will shape your future—what major to pursue, which relationships to invest in, and how to align your life with God’s purpose. How can you make these decisions with confidence and faith?
This article will help you dive deeper into biblical principles and practical tools for making godly decisions, so you can approach life’s choices with clarity, peace, and purpose.
The Power of Decisions
Your decisions today determine your tomorrow. Every choice, big or small, contributes to the story of your life. Some decisions—like choosing a career or a summer project—can feel overwhelming. Others, like daily habits, may seem insignificant but create long-term impact. Learning to make intentional, godly decisions is key to navigating your future with confidence.
Reflect on these quotes about decision-making:
• “Life is the sum of all your choices.” – Albert Camus
• “You cannot make progress without making decisions.” – Jim Rohn
• “Your decisions today will determine your stories tomorrow.” – Andy Stanley
A Story of Conviction: Dr. Martin Luther King Jr.
Dr. Martin Luther King Jr., a leader of the Civil Rights Movement, made life-defining decisions rooted in his faith and convictions. Despite threats to his life and family, he chose to stand for justice, equality, and the biblical principle that all people are created in God’s image. His choices were not driven by fear but by a deep sense of purpose.
King once said:
“If you have never found something so dear and so precious to you that you will die for it, then you aren’t fit to live. … You may go on and live until you are 90, but you’re just as dead at 38 as you would be at 90.”
This challenges us to reflect on our priorities and convictions. Are your decisions driven by fear, comfort, or a desire to honor God?
Why Decision-Making Matters
Your decisions shape your future. Every choice you make impacts your:
• Career: What major or job to pursue.
• Relationships: Who you spend time with and how you treat others.
• Faith: How you grow spiritually and align with God’s purpose.
Imagine climbing a ladder leaning against the wrong wall. Are your decisions leading you toward what truly matters?
Reflection Question: What’s going to matter to you the most on your deathbed?
This question helps clarify your values and align your decisions with your ultimate goals.
My Journey: Lessons from Key Decisions
In my own life, I’ve faced pivotal decisions:
1. Choosing a Job After College: Balancing financial security with purpose.
2. Deciding to Marry My Wife: Trusting God’s timing and aligning our values.
3. Moving to Chicago: Leaving familiarity to pursue God’s call in ministry.
Each decision taught me to ask:
“Will this choice help me know God more and make Him known compared to my other options?”
Step-by-Step: How to Make Godly Decisions
1. Narrow Down Your Options
Start by eliminating options that are:
• Unbiblical: Choices that go against God’s Word.
• Unwise: Decisions that carry unnecessary risks or distractions.
• Unaligned with Your Purpose: Options that don’t reflect God’s calling on your life.
2. Assess with the “L” Questions
To clarify your priorities, ask these five “L” questions:
1. Lord: Will this decision help me know God more and make Him known?
2. Love: Does this choice reflect love for God and others?
3. Legacy: Will this decision contribute to the legacy I want to leave?
4. Learn: Will this choice help me grow spiritually, emotionally, or professionally?
5. Long-term Goal: Does this decision align with the values and lifestyle I want to live?
3. Complete the G.R.I.D. Framework
After narrowing your options and assessing them, use the G.R.I.D. framework to finalize your decision:
• G – Go to God in Prayer
Start by asking God for wisdom and clarity. (James 1:5)
• R – Reflect on Scripture
Evaluate your options against biblical teachings and values. (Psalm 119:105)
• I – Inquire of Wise Counsel
Seek advice from mentors, friends, or spiritual leaders. (Proverbs 15:22)
• D – Discern Through Peace
Follow the peace of Christ as you move forward. (Colossians 3:15)
Encouragement for Decision Fatigue
If decision-making feels overwhelming, here are three reminders to encourage you:
1. You Can’t Mess Up God’s Plan: “God works all things together for good.” (Romans 8:28)
2. God Cares About the Process: Making decisions with God builds faith and character. (James 1:5)
3. Trust His Timing: God will guide you step by step. (Psalm 37:23-24)
Takeaway Challenge
Reflection Question: What’s one decision you’ll approach differently after today?
Take a moment to reflect on what you’ve learned and commit to applying these principles in your next big decision. Trust that God is faithful to guide you as you seek His will.
Conclusion: Trust God with Your Decisions
Decisions are opportunities to honor God, grow in faith, and shape your future. When you seek Him through prayer, Scripture, and wise counsel, you can move forward with peace, knowing that He is directing your steps.
Final Thought:
Your decisions today will shape your tomorrow. Approach each choice with faith, wisdom, and trust in God, knowing He has a plan and purpose for your life.